Just have to share it does have a happy ending

Al
It all started in 2013 they found a lump in my breast I went and had a biopsy they said it was a sebaceous cyst and that they would watch it. Well fast forward working on my third year of marriage my breast was hurting I went into the surgeons office January 2015. They decided to do a biopsy and all these tests mammograms, ultrasounds. It came back as a abscess that was 1.38cm. They did a fine needle aspiration in March 2015 everything was fine until I became red and inflamed I went back in May of 2015 they did another ultrasound it had come back at 1.87cm they did a surgery to remove it they closed it all up. At this point I have been on antibiotics for 5 months straight. They took me off the antibiotics and said it will be good now. I went along and in the end of May I went into my primary care cause you could feel the heat through my clothes. My primary care put me on antibiotics it cleared up ok. My husband at this point was very supportive through all this. Well in June I was working grave yards I bent over to put my clients shoes on I had a sever pain I went into the hospital and said somethings wrong they did another ultrasound and found the abscess it was 5cm my surgeon said to put a drain tube in and if they can't he will be there in a hour for surgery. They were able to get a drain tube in. I had it in for a week and a half they removed it. On July 2nd 2015. I went into my one week follow up and I had nasty drainage . My surgeon said see you In surgery. I went home in tears cause I was having another surgery. My husband was distant and said he had to work and couldn't get it off blah blah. I went into surgery and woke up with my mom there they left my breast open and the opening was 6.6cm long 3.5 cm wide and 5.4 cm deep I had daily wound care for a month every thing was going good. I found dick pics on my husbands phone found out he had been texting and calling other women. We went to counseling trying to save our marriage. We did this for a month and a half. In October 2015 he called me and said he had been texting a 16 year old and that he was in trouble. I went home and got a storage unit and totes and started packing. He never cried nothing we were 10 days from our third wedding anniversary. I moved back in with my mom and everything was ok we were filing for divorce and I ended up needing another special Doctor due to my breast not healing correctly I had two weeks of ivs daily then I went trough 7 weeks of daily antibiotic shots still would not heal and my rock was no longer there he had been a ass hole and cheated. I had my mother though thank god. In January of 2016 I went back to my surgeon because it was still not healing correctly and I kept saying I have another abscess I know what it feels like. They decided to take part of my breast I had a partial masctomey on 1/14/16. At this point I had been off antibiotics a total of 95 days in a whole year. I had stopped talking to my husband he was so ignorant to me. Our divorce was finalized 2/17/16 happiest day of my life. He told me I would not amount to anything I am now a administrator for a assisted living facility I have an amazing man in my life. And most of all my health 5 months no reoccurance thank the lord. My current boyfriend is amazing. And I do feel bad for my ex I was the bread winner I paid all our bills cause he only made 800 a month and this and that I didn't realize he was paying child support on a child who just turned four we were together for 6 years married almost 3 so do the math and his girlfriend is six months pregnant. And I feel sorry for her but hey they make there choices and all i can say is bless there hearts.

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