Ttc baby 1

Being really down after being 9 days late thinking it was my month, trying to think positive but it's soo hard don't know how couples do it for years when we've only been trying for few months... People don't know the struggle of trying when they didn't really try that long and you get sayings like oh don't stress don't think about it and it will just happen... But it's all you can think about deep down. Does anyone else feel this???