Did you feel as much as a woman after having a baby?

Question

My friend just had a baby and can't feel to find sex enjoyable or find herself beautiful despite being happy about her newborn. She keeps saying that having a baby took a lot out if her.Even though it might just be baby blues, I wonder of the majority of women feel this way.

Answer

Give it some TIME. Think of it: giving birth is like going on TOP of the Mount Everest. The first week(s) after you don't have the urge to do it again.... BUT after a while you'll like alpin climbing again...  some woman need more time to enjoy sex again... You have to find your body feeling back... It's different to before getting pregnant... About 1 year after giving birth you'll find it wonderful to have sex again. Every woman has her own time schedule!

Answer

It took time, but I'm more confident now then I ever was. At first it was just painful tho , so if she's trying 6 weeks after that might be why. Patience (and lube), grasshopper.

Answer

After 3-5 months

I was worried about my stomach and stretch marks 
Then worried about my stitches 
Then the blood 
And had anxiety of whether my bits would be all stretched and would I still feel him

It took a while to get back into it
And I can honestly say I've had better sex since being a mum than I had before

Did you feel as much as a woman after having a baby?

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