Grandmother

Does it irritate anyone else's nerve when your mother visits your daughter and she tries to get her to call her mom mama or mommy? I don't get how someone has the audacity to insult me by trying to vicariously live through my life. Especially when I carried my daughter for 39 weeks 2 days, went through the pregnancy pains and 23 hours of labor. Grasp the reality that you are her grandmother, this isn't your second chance as a mother.. Let me experience & enjoy motherhood. Just wondering if I'm over reacting ?!