16 weeks 1st time mummies

Has any1 felt flutters or anything associated with the baby? I havint so far im 16 weeks 1 day im thinking its stil early but just curious about others! Also wat about the gender i havint found mine yet im waiting til 18 weeks but its stil possible to find the gender at this stage right? Share ur comments! šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜€