Who's really the baby?😒

Any one else have problems with their SO making everything about them? I'm FAR from selfish or self centered..and until this point I have had no problem letting it in one ear and out the other..Maybe its because my due date is past and I'm just over sensitive but my SO seems to think we r in competition! I've been in and out of the hospital the past week due to contractions and ad back pain.. and I have a high pain tolerance but any time I get in real pain he compares it to the pain of his job! I finally am having trouble getting around ( broke my back in 06) and I will avoid asking him for help until I have no choice (which gets hard w a 5 yr old autistic LO already ) and when I do break down and ask for help he says I owe him and will bitch about it every time. During contractions he says "can't be that bad" -makes me want to squeeze his manhood to "compare!" I know I'm just kind of complaining but does anyone else have this problem?