Weight Gain

Natasha
Okay ladies, I recently had a doctors visit for my 24 week check up and was told, so rudely, by an OB doctor (not my normal doc) that I need to watch my weight gain. 
Unfortunately, I was rushed in and out with him and spent a total of 5 minutes with this doctor who commented on my weight gain the whole time. Even had the balls to tell me not to stop and grab a Krispy Kreme donut on my way in for my glucose test in a couple of weeks. He had me so mad I cried the whole way home!
But he also told me that the recommended weight gain is 25-30 pounds total.
 So my question is how much have you all gained so far?? I'm so down on myself every since that appointment that I feel ugly and fat now, instead of glowing and happy. 
I was 170 before I got pregnant and weighed in at 190 at my 24 week appointment. So 20 pounds. 
I would love to hear from the mamas to be if they're struggling with keeping in that weight recommendation. 
This is my 6 week (175 lbs) vs 24 week (190).