Is this enough for an apartment?
My family is very, very abusive emotionally and mentally. Just yesterday my dad called me an ugly cunt cause I wouldn't give him my bank information.
I need to get out. I just got a great paying job as a daycare teacher. I'm 19. I make about 2,000$ a month, around that.
I can't ask these questions to family members because a) they're abusive b) they're trying to get me to stay there. I simply brought up the idea of possibly buying my own car (because my mother sold the car I had just got a ton of repairs on without even consulting me) and both parents flipped out saying I just got a job and should "stop rushing". They're divorced, so at my age, going back and forth to see them, especially with how controlling my father is, who gets very, very angry when I go to my mothers, is just too much.
I understand it's all very fast but the reason I got this job was to get myself out of a situation where I am being treated badly. It's ruining my mental health. I'm called names on the daily. I've been trying to make a budget and I think I can afford it, but I need major help from you ladies... I have no one else to ask. Any advice and help would be so much appreciated, I plan to move out by September, so I have about 2 and a half months to organize myself.
Oh shoot, I forgot to include the price of the rent f the apartments I'm currently looking at. They're anywhere from 500-625$
I suffer from extreme social anxiety so I can't have a roommate whom I don't know, I won't feel comfortable in my own home and I know it'll send me running back home. I've asked my friends, but none of them want to move out yet. So a room mate is out of the question for the moment. I'm hoping once my boyfriend gets a better paying job, he will move in.
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