For those of you having a baby shower..

Xochitl
When are you ladies having it? 
Both my nieces, nephews, and my sons birthday are all so close and start the end of August and they're each getting a party this year. So like every month there will be a party and its just making me not even want a baby shower. I actually don't really want one period but my sister is insisting so much on planning one for me since I'll be having a girl this time. We're thinking of having it in the beggining of August so we can start concentrating on the other kids and their birthdays and not have it so close to their birthday parties. I just think it's to early for a baby shower? Isn't it suppose to be close to the due date? My due date is Nov 1st btw.