Hey there everyone !!! I've got a little question...

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I have really been wanting to get a tattoo to not just for the hell of it but because I want something that represents me but I have no idea what! I've been threw hell not quite back just yet haha but I mean, I want it to be beautiful, colorful, peaceful, but strong, and bold. Idk if any of you ladies got tattoos how'd you decide what tattoo would suit you?