Sharing baby

Anyone else having a hard time sharing your baby? I want to hold her and change her and I EBF. I feel anxious when others hold her. (Germs, what if they drop her...) At public places or places with friends I put her in my wrap so she doesn't get passed around but at family events I feel guilty doing that. I feel like I have to share. She's going to be 6 weeks on Tues.