Over reacting ?

I have had this picture perfect idea of pregnancy apparently because this whole process has been the complete opposite than what I have expected. My boyfriend and I are having a baby that wasn't planned we were both excited at the beginning but now I feel like he's not as excited. He felt the baby move for the first time last night and his reaction was "oh I felt it" and continued to watch tv. It broke my heart. I had been waiting weeks for him to finally feel the baby. He knew I had been feeling him for weeks but never asked if he could feel or anything like that. I've just had this picture in my head that pregnancy would be so sweet and intimate. Like as soon as I walk in the door he would rub my belly and talk to the baby. Ive had more people at my work rub my belly than him. This all makes me so sad to think about. I literally cried myself to sleep last night. Am I over reacting?