Losing my virginity

Im not really sure what to expect. I know that a couple years ago i was maturbating & there was a pop & i definitely bled a good amount & i my thighs & stuff just burned for a few hours... (i know that the cherry doesnt exist i know what i hymen is i know you never loss it & virginity is just a label it actually doesnt mean anything) l. Iv tried to before well i was about to have sex but i just got nervous after the orgasm that i had because i was pretty loud. How can i make sure im wet enough