I always said I'd never have unprotected sex, but the other day my man slipped it in without a rubber and I wanted him so I didn't say no. I'm on my birth control and he pulled out well in advance, so I'm not concerned but it's just so crazy to see how being in love with someone and trusting them completely has affected me. I understand the possible consequences and am willing to face them. It was so weird because mentally it was like another first time for me because I never had raw sex before then. Of the ladies who use the pullout method and bc (or no bc) why do you choose this method and what extra steps do you take to do this effectively? I'm debating if I want this to be the new thing for us or to go back to using condoms.