Has your man ever said you're bad in bed?

I've never been told I was bad in bed with any of my exs and for the past two years I thought I was pleasing my man but lately I guess for a long time now the comments have added up, he doesn't like the head, hand jobs, or sex, he doesn't even like giving me head. I've never been bad in bed, I've always had issues with the guys I've been with finishing too fast because they enjoy me too much, I really don't think it's me that's the problem I think he's just trying to hurt me. But if it is me then maybe I should try and change whatever it is I'm doing wrong 💔😔 I'm just wondering