Colicky baby

My 9 week old is suffering from a BAD case of colic. He's also been diagnosed with reflux and I've tried eliminating dairy/soy for 3 weeks which didn't make a difference. Doc says it peaks at 6 weeks, but can take longer (and clearly it is for us). I feel like I'm doing something wrong and I'm a terrible FTM😢 It feels like it will never end, and I find myself being jealous of other people's baby's wishing mine was different😢...any positive thoughts or first hand experiences welcome!