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Question

When your relationship feels broken and you feel like he can't see that it is.. and you don't love him anymore but you really want too and you've been together a really long time so you can't just give up. you just want that spark back from the beginning. and he still loves you and you know you'd miss him if you were to split up, and i don't think i can live without him but why should i stay if he loves me but i can't reciprocate anything? please help i'm really upset
he's still my bestfriend. i just don't want him anymore except for the way we used to be. i feel like we're already married and in another year when i can't take it anymore we'll get divorced. is it normal to feel that way after only 4 years??

Answer

Try date nights once a week.
But I recommend a break. For a month. If you still live together keep it limited so you'll see each other but won't talk. Or message. Sleep separately and get on with your life.
This gives you space to work on you and him space to work on him.
You need to feel you want him for who he is and you love him not need him.
Do you really want to be with someone you're staying with out of pity or it's been a while?

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Sounds like you need a date night. Do something you've never done or something you've always wanted to do. Have sex but switch it up from the norm.

Sounds like there is still hope!! but that you just might be bored. Think of something to spark it up. Best of luck.

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This happened to me and I told my BF I felt like the spark and love had gone and how unloved I felt how distant we was and how I didn't feel like we was the same we once was, after all of that he said he would try and I said I don't know I feel like it's too late and that was only a year in to our relationship and he said he will try work better and try show me what I need and understand etc well he tried and started to do nice things showed me what I wanted restarted that spark from the beginning and I felt like I just fell in love with him allover again,

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