Weird question... What's with this no popping thing after labor!!💩😩

So..... I've been hearing a lot about how terrible pooping 💩 is after labor! And some are saying it's worse then the birth itself!! So now that I'm freaked out by that, is there any mommas out there that didn't have a terrible with this after!!!???!!! I bought some stool softener for my bag 😟 but is that really necessary!!!?? Please tell me not everyone has trouble or painful experiences 😔lol