Has been starting a new job

My has been is a longer he's been looking for his sister for a couple years now he wants to start his own logging business so we so we went to the bank the banks that we would they would do a mortgage on the house and the bank said they will and getting everything started everything ready  for the future and then I found out I was pregnant with twins and he is stressed out and I don't know what to do he won't tell me anything help me please what do I say to him and only five weeks and five days