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This is my 5th pregnancy after the first 2 resulting in beautiful healthy little girls and my last 2 ending in loss last year. Well we got the great news 3 weeks ago we are expecting again. I'm cautiously excited but my hubby is acting like nothing is different in our lives. I get that he doesn't want to get attached and then have to mourn the loss of a 3rd baby. Anyone else dealing with this after a loss?

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Yes I have 2 daughters then after I've had 3 miscarriages and now I'm currently pregnant again and I started bleeding today after I had an ultrasound which everything seemed to be good. I'm hoping for it to just be my cervix and not another miscarriage

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It's understandable given the circumstances. My husband won't be relaxed until we get past the 21 week mark (which is when we lost our first). So we have a long wait until we feel comfortable and happy with this pregnancy. Cut yourselves some slack and be kind to each other. Such a difficult thing to do after losses xx

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My husband and I have lost 7 over the years. He does detached slightly with each rainbow baby (which was 3 of our 4 current kiddos, and the baby I am pregnant with). It is a guard mechanism for him.

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