Upset with 39 week appointment

Just needing some reassurance. This is my first baby... Last week I was 1cm and 50%. Today I had the one doc in the practice that has bad bedside manner and she really upset me. She said I was the same 1cm 50% and that "we'll talk about induction at your next appointment maybe we'll shoot for the 7th or 8th" .. She made it sound like there is no possible way I could go on my own 😓 I'm due July 4th and I really don't want to be induced for obvious reasons. She just wasn't nice .. And I'm hormonal and I guess sensitive.. Anyone have any insight for me?