He likes me but wont commit

So me & this guy are family friends, ive known him since 8th grade & im going to college next year. He lives like 36 minutes away from me and we dated last year for the summer but only saw each other once due to him always canceling dates last minute & the fact that i couldnt drive over to him by myself yet. Now we are talking again with him for MONTHS texting almost everyday and we are even closer then when we dated last year. I just asked him where we stand and he said he doesnt know and doesnt want to put a title on anything unless hes sure. He has told me he loves me just a month ago...god why are guys so confusing 😔 i havent seen him in two months but i dont understand why he wont commit to a relationship w me again if he asked to get back together multiple times before & now that i can drive to him (we basically broke up due to not being able to see each other ) any ideas why he wont date me again even wheb he still likes me alot?