My libido is ghost!

I love my boyfriend and I still find him and his body very attractive. He's the dream guy I used to describe to my friends when I was single but I've been stressing alot about our future and we've been making some big changes in our life that have may be slightly distracted us from our attraction to each other which of course makes it hard for conception...maybe this isn't the right time for a baby but I still want to have sex with my man more than once every blue moon! Help!!