Help!

So I have been with my current boyfriend for a year now. Now before I had him I had boys that either used me or forced me. So I hadn't had sex in 7 years because I was afraid to. When I met him though everything felt right. I was happy and I feel as if I have finally met "the one." I trusted him enough to have intercourse. I was happy. But now as we go on he has yet to make me cum. I have never orgasmed before. Now he does try. But I can't get there. So I am asking for any idea on how I can help or tips for him. He does refuse to preform oral and use toys.