Sex is only pleasurable for men??!!

Ny
Hey ladies. Everytime I have sex it hurts and makes my vagina sore for days. It seems like the man is the only one whoo really enjoys it.  im usually im between three moods during sex
-Hurts like hell
-Feels nothing
-Feels great. 
anyone else been through this?
If its a natural thing than it should be enjoyable not painful :/