Am I a bad person?!?!

My boyfriend wants me to come for Christmas and stay with him. Sounds great. I asked him if he's slept with anyone in his bed. he's like yeah why. I said I'm not sleeping in the same bed that he slept with other women in. Now he's not happy with me. But I'm holding my ground and now will only go if I stay at a nearby hotel. I refuse to stay in his house. Am I terrible?