are his friends or you more important?

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My boyfriend has been with his friends almost every single day and sees me like once a day!?! any advice please?!

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Hes an adult he should be able to do whatever he wants. If you guys see each other often I dont see why thats a problem, you don't have to spend every second together. Maybe find a hobby or hang out with your own friends while he's hanging out with his. I assume you're young, its really not a big deal unless he purposefully cancels on you, lies, ditches you, and etc to hang out with them you know?

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I'm a firm believer that if you are someone's significant other, then that means they put above all of their friends when it comes to priorities. You should be his second priority (only to his family). You need to tell him how you feel and if he can't make you happy then you should leave him. Don't get sucked into something that won't leave you happy at the end of the day.

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Once a day? Pssht I wish I could see my boyfriend that much.

His friends have been there for him long before you came in the picture I'm sure. You have to learn to be your own person and not just depend on him 24/7. Or else your relationship will inevitably fail. Go hang out with your friends. Go do something. Don't let him occupy everything 24/7. I know it's hard sometimes when all you wanna do is be with them. But if you want a long, mature, and happy relationship you'll allow him space, and bro time. If he's blowing you off. Or canceling plans, then yes talk to him about it. But if he's just hanging out with his friends. But still does make time for you then what's the big deal?

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Once a day is a lot TBH. You can't expect him to choose you over them, especially if they've been in his life longer or something

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Im more important than his friends but he choses his friends not me& hes happy to stop contact with any of them if i do not feel that it is right and if its a female

are his friends or you more important?

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