After 2 years of relationship, we are having sexual problems.... For a couple of months now... For my talking about this is embarrassing to be honest..... I'm not sexually active to him , but we do LOVE each other... We are going to go to a therapist (trying to find a good one in Missouri) , tonight we are going to try to watch porn and see if we can have sex.. I don't know is that's healthy to watch porn in a relation to have some sexual estimation......