I wish none of us were here, but this is reality - my husband and I lost our daughter in May at 24 weeks. She had Turner's Syndrome (missing an X chromosome) and had a very poor prognosis starting from the first time the doctor detected fluid in her body.  We got to hold her and commemorate her, but still miss her so much. People say, at least it was a random occurrence, at least you're still young... But it still hurts to lose a child. I know it's only July, but I'd like to start ttc again - I go through days where I do and don't, and feel crazy at times! Since we don't have any children I have this fear that we won't be able to, just because I don't have a child we can hold in this life... How long did you wait and what factors did you consider?