Missing out.

So I've done the google searches and we've experimented, but still no results. I've never had an orgasm before. My husband wasn't my first partner but he's definitely my last. Any ladies out there never had one before or figured out some tips and tricks. I'm married, 23 years old and we have one child. We've been trying to conceive again, and it's always a lot of fun but I would really like the whole shabang so to speak.