During sex my man won't take top?

Question

I like being on top and all but it hurts after a while and by the time i get to the "ow ow ow!" stage were my hips and knees are screaming he says "we can stop having sex for a minute." Umm noo?! Why won't he take over top for a while. I don't wanna stop having sex i want him on top. I haven't had an orgasm in a couple months because of this.

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That sucks ..have you told him this..my husband loves being on top thankfully because I have a messed up back and j can't go too long on top.

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Try talking to him and letting him know that it makes you feel loved and desired when he gets on top and you being on top all the time makes it feel like he doesn't care about your likes and dislikes and that you feel like you need that from him to feel sexually fulfilled. Tell him that you want him to lose control because it makes you feel desired. Ultimately, he may be dealing with some kind of psychological issue such as prior abuse, so addressing the behavior and pointing it out to him is OK. However, the behavior will only change when he is ready to address whatever his real issue is. But you do have every right to have your needs fulfilled, so don't be afraid to talk to him about how you're feeling.

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Lean forward and tilt your hips forward more so that your clit is rubbing on his dick. That should help with having an orgasm on top or you could just rub your clit with your hand. Any your BF sounds like he's just being lazy. You need to REFUSE being on top all the time.

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Try doggy style? Or spooning.

During sex my man won't take top?

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