men problems

so I been with this guy for about year and lately he's been acting funny he doesn't call or text me unless he's drunk and over my family house than he want to act like everything ok and we are together and we spend the night together than it comes back to no call or text then next day after he leaves he says he doesn't want anything right now but does care for me and what no but I'm only getting theses conversation when he drunk now they say a drunk mind tells the truth it never use to be like this before but I also don't want him to think its ok and think he runs things it just started few months I don't know what to do because I do care a lot for him I don't know if I should ignore him or contuine and hope it will go back I don't know any suggestions??