I told a close male friend at work that I'm pregnant (was 6 weeks at that point) and a week later he made a comment that he doesn't know how others haven't realized I'm pregnant yet bc I look like I'm retaining a ton of water. Then today (7W4D) I told a girlfriend and she said when she saw me a week ago she thought I had gained some weight but didn't want to say anything, she also said it looks like I'm retaining a bunch of water. Should I be offended? Are they saying I look fat? LOL