A lot happened past few years. Lots of arguments fights ect..he would stop me from going out of the house or lock me in the bathroom. I called cops a few times on him. We separated 5moths and he came back this February. Not sure what to do he have one son 3 years and I have 2 kids from my ex. He locks his phone and will not let.me go through it. Lately I've been trying so hard to be nice to him on fix our marrige but he keeps doing things and say this is how you have been I'm just showing you how it feels. He refuses to work on the marrige with me and insists that h will only change when I change. In so confused. How can he say he doesn't know if e loves me or not. Then I tell him is that why everyone I tell you I love u you never say it back. He told me yes Cuz I can lie. Then he said I never said I don't love you. He neve wants to have sex. Always turn me down. Please help.