Help please reply. I feel terrible?

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I am 10 weeks pregnant, hubby and I have been together for 10 years, and we have been planning this baby to complete our family. We are over the moon, this is baby number 4, and we are so happy and grateful to be blessed enough to have this miracle. 
BUT, my sister in law, has been TTC for a few months, and got her positive on two tests, but they were faint lines. She was over the moon to find out that she had conceived bless her!
I had a text last night, I will copy and paste...
"Amie, I came on my period what does that mean?"
I asked her how heavy and she said not spotting, bleeding like a period.
I told her to go straight to A&E, and she text me a few hours later to tell me that they can't scan her until the morning, so she is going back today for a scan to see what is happening. 
I explained to her that it could be a chemical pregnancy and gave her details about it, and told her that she has only found out because she tested early, and some women don't even know that they have had one. 
But I also told her trying to be supportive that everything could be OK...
I'm writing this post because I feel gutted for her, and the fact that I am still carrying our baby, and having no problems, makes me feel selfish, I guess? I am trying to support her and asking her what's going on and has she left to go to the scan yet and to let me know what's happening, but in the back of my mind, poking me, is the thought that I feel so terrible and selfish. This is our 4th baby and she was TTC her 1st?
I don't even know if this is a question or just venting it out, but I just need someone to tell me how to feel? I love her as my real sister. And just feel so bad. I've even thought to myself that when I have the baby in February, that she will be upset as she would've been due around that time too. And I don't want her to feel like that?

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UPDATE. 
I rang my sister in law and she had bloods done last night, and they checked her cervix to see if it was open or closed, it was closed, that's a good sign, the bleeding wore off at the hospital last night, and she has woken up this morning with no blood visable, another good sign. And now has to wait for her blood test to come back and will get a phone call today or tomorrow, and if needed, will have a scan in a few days. Fingers crossed for her xx

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It's an awful situation but everyone is different and it's important to understand that. As awful as you may feel and she most likely will, express your love and support through this time and support her through her journey of ttc and she will see the love you have for her! All you can do is be supportive and loving and if she reacts badly give her time and space until she feels ready to be around your pregnancy again! I hope everything works out for you both xx

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Its a horrible situation to be in but don't feel bad it's not your fault if this doesn't work out its down to fate sadly. I was 23wks 5days pregnant and lost my son when my Sister in law was 14wks pregnant and she was in absolute pieces for weeks blaming herself saying she felt horrible but i told her it wasn't what i wanted to see her sad i wanted to see her have a healthy baby more then anything in the world and i was truely happy for her regardless i was grieving. She went on to have a healthy baby boy and i fell again im now 15wks 5days. Its difficult but try not blame yourself feel unhappy im sure your sister wouldnt want this for you

Help please reply. I feel terrible?

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