In shock

This was our first month really trying after an ectopic at Christmas. Took a test Monday and got a BFN so I thought I was out... However I just took a cheapie basically so I wouldn't get my hopes up tomorrow that AF wouldn't come and surprise! I am shocked and terrified! I also feel guilty because my husband always wants to be there when I test and he just left for work. I don't want to tell him on the phone. I am also so scared that it will be another ectopic or misscarriage. Any advice!?!