So major background story is my biological mother and her children are completely off kilter crazy and lead me to attempt to commit suicide multiple times while I had them in my life. Just a rundown on the mental, physical, and emotional abuse I suffered. My mother was very physically abusive. Beating you with hangers, wires, iron, bats, chairs, etc. I still have a scars from when she broke a glass vase in my face. If beating you didn't work you were fat, stupid, not good enough, ugly, secluded inside the house. Mentally it was always a battle field of strategy. things like school is out at 310 you must be home by 315 even though it take you 15 minutes to get home. If you late you get beaten and manual labor. Don't give lip because then you don't get food. The list goes on just from my mother. There is so much more but we would be here all day.

As you can guess all of her children developed mental problems, including me. And my sister even turned out to be just like her though she denied it. Well about 4-6 years ago I broke off from them and disappeared wanting nothing to do with them after an incident with my kids and for obvious reasons. I welcomed certain family members back in my life 1-2 years ago because they never actually did me or my kids wrong. They didnt help but they didnt do wrong. Well come to find out they are feeding my mother and sister information about me and my family from my Facebook. Thank God they don't have my # or address because lord knows it would never end. I've told them that to be in my life they can't share my information with them and one person's response was a lecture on how they feel I'm in the wrong and that's my mother forgive and forget blah blah blah. Well my argument is my feelings, my life, my wishes you don't get to disregard them and do what you feel is right because you don't agree.

Well since they have been feeding her this info she has literally started harrassing my God mother, my aunt (father's mother) and anyone she thinks is still in contact with to the point that an old high school friend (i have seen or spoken to in 10 yrs) had to file a restraining order. So I don't want to cut my other family off completely because they are good people and my kids need to know that whole side of their family isnt bad but I can't have them giving her personal details about my life. I made my Facebook private for a reason. What should my next step to nip this in the bud permanently?