When people ask if you're pregnant

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We're 4w4d and I'm not ready to tell everyone we're pregnant (no smashed for those who do, just a personal thing). My best friends know, and that's how I want it for a little while. But I've already been asked by an aunt if I'm pregnant. I straight up lied... What do you say when people ask when you aren't ready to tell?

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We say "we probably won't have a baby until next year." Technically not a lie, we are due March 1, 2017! 💁🏼

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Just reply with "hopefully soon!" And move along.. Easy way to move along the convo and not give a real answer

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I say "we are working on it" which is true. I am working on growing a human

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Only my mom, mother in law, father in law, sister in law, and a few friends know. Other than that we are waiting until twelve weeks. I'm currently seven weeks three days I'm so ready for the next four weeks and four days to go by. We have our first ultra sound tomorrow. Just praying everything is okay and there is a little sticky bean beating!!

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In the same boat. Our inner circle (those who are praying for us and have worked through infertility heartache with us) know but we are keeping it from most family and others until 12 weeks- it's hard because my aunt calls and out right asks... I always just say "I will make sure to tell you when I have something to tell" or I say "keep on praying". I feel bad but I want it to be special when we tell her and it won't be if she just keeps on asking like that.

Our first ultrasound should be next week so we will probably tell our parents after that. I am so stinking excited to do it!

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We just politely say no and then when you are ready everyone should understand why you wanted to wait to tell people to make sure everything is going good and the baby is healthy. Just keep doing what you are doing.

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Since this is our rainbow baby and we are still super nervous and don't want to tell people until 16 weeks, I've been lying. If you go out for drinks, go up to the bar yourself and discreetly ask for just a coke or something and pretend it's a rum & coke. You don't have to tell anyone if you're not ready. Congrats!!!

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Only a couple people know but if anyone asks me I tell them no. We are waiting until I'm 12 weeks to tell everyone and waiting until first scan to tell my parents

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I am the same way actually the day I tested my aunt text me about pregnancy like omg and now she say it a lot and I'm just like no then she went in my closet and went where I hid my proof of pregnancy at. I had to hurry and get her out of it. Before she seen it. I don't want any one to know until I'm about 16-20 weeks and if I can keep it secret longer I will.

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Well I said I'm not to sure yet or I say I'm going to find out soon.

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