So I talked with my boyfriend this weekend about his uncomfortableness when I tell him I love him. He said he just felt pressured like I was trying to make him say it back. We both felt better talking about it, I have no intention of making him say he loves me until he is ready. He still says he isn't sure if he will but he can't say he never will either. I know he cares, he tells me he does. He tells me how happy he is to have found me. And by his actions I know that he does love me. It's just kind of sad that he has been hurt so much that he has these giant walls up. I even got to talk to his nephew/best friend about some of it this weekend and he even said that he cares and saying I love you will come.