Being on top during sex?

Question

I've never really been on top but a few times because I'm a little bigger and just not sure how to do it. It definitely lowers my self confidence. Someone help. Lol

Answer

You never know till you give it a try. I have gained quite a bit of weight while in my relationship and while at first it was hard to be comfortable I just tried it until I found the position on top I was comfortable with. Top is nice while my boyfriend doesn't at all mind my weight gain I use my boobs as a decoy to distract him from my stomach area. Give it a try and if it's not for you that's okay !

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😭 I'm in the same boat! I feel so bad about it & about myself lol. I notice the problem with me was my legs would hurt. I couldn't really stay upright without them cramping. To solve that we laid near the edge of the bed & I let one leg hang off & touch the ground and it would help me bounce on top of him easier.

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I used to hate being on top, for the same reason. But I found someone who lets me take control when I want to but knows when to take control back when I want to be controlled. Your SO should make you feel like a beautiful blossom whether you're a little bigger or not. I'm a little bigger but he likes it when I'm on top because we'll get the majority of time spent with skin on skin ALSO I can whisper in his ear, really have full coverage of his ears(licking, nibbling, biting)😂 And it might sound weird but when you're on top tell your SO to spread your cheeks and it feels so good😍😜 And if another reason you might not like being on top is because of stabilizing yourself(weak knees/thighs) you can literally just sit on them if you need to. Or if you're in the back of a car, put the majority of your weight on your elbows and put them around a headrest if needed. It helps. Or if you're on a bed, lean over your SO again with elbows on either side and play with their hair while you're at it😊😋 I hope this helped!!

Being on top during sex?

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