So my boyfriend was 28 and I was 19 when this story starts. We were dating for about 6 months when I started getting baby
fever. (I pretty much always have baby fever tbh lol). He had a 3 year old son and I babysat for him a lot since he works 12 hours 6 days a week. About 8 months in I got the hint he was thinking about it too. He started asking me if I was ready for one of my own and asking his son in front of me if he wanted a brother or sister. 9 months hits and something awful happens. His ex left for Florida with the kid without telling anyone. We live in AZ so visiting him regularly is not an option and there was nothing we could do legally because they never set up custody/child support. It was this same week, after all the heartbreak and frustration that he asked me if I wanted to try getting pregnant. I was extatic! I asked once if it was about his son leaving and he told me no and I didn't push him about it. I guess I should have. It took me 2 months to get pregnant and when we finally tested positive 3 months later I couldn't be happier but he freaked out and told me I needed to get rid of it or I would lose him. My answer was obvious, I chose the baby and told him to go screw himself. Fast forward the next 8 months, I'm 39 weeks pregnant and throughout this entire time we have been angry, happy, engaged, broken up, and we've slowly gotten back together and moved back in together. I've been a wreck emotionally and this week especially I've been stressed about getting everything done on my list before baby gets here. He does some stuff like putting together the crib and car seat but when it comes to my emotional stability he refuses to comfort me. He tells me I'm crazy and I need to leave him alone until I'm normal again. This hurts my feelings so much and he tells me that he didn't even want this baby for us. He says I made the decision alone so I can deal with it alone and I just don't agree with him. There was never a moment when we stopped trying so as soon as she was concieved it was done on purpose. He says he can't trust me because I didn't listen to what he wanted at all when it came to keeping the baby. This is the biggest cause of our issues because I just flat out don't agree with him.
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