Well i am married for four months now. I am 28 years old. My husband is 31. We both doesn't have kids yet. I live in China, he works in Iraq, comes home every 2 months. We started dating in this situation. The long distance thing doesn't bother me so much.

The point is, we both agreed on ttc in at least a year from now. I don't know why, he's here with me this month and i got so sad every time he pulls out or use a condom. It's like i want it so bad to get pregnant. I know we can handle it but we want to be stable when we are pregnant. He says he doesn't want to miss anything.

We talked about it and we agreed to try in 6 months or so. I find that too far from now. Am still sad 😢