I have questions about losing my virginity

I've always been the open minded sex-driven of my friends, but I'm still a virgin. (I'm not pressured to lose it for that reason, hear me out). 
Recently I've wanted to have sex but I'm not sure how I should go about it. Should it be with someone I care about? Is it ok if its someone I don't care about? How long should I be on birth control for it to be fully effective during sex?
I'd love to hear your opinions!

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