So once we announced to my boyfriends family I'm pregnant they have been pushing for a gender reveal party which sounded like a fun idea but I really don't have many friends or family that would be able to come so it be manly my boyfriends family which is fine but sometimes it feels awkward around them & theyre super pushy and like to tell me what to do during my pregnancy. So I'm leaning more towards just finding out during the ultrasound with my boyfriend and it be more intament and special moment for us to share but I know his family will be super upset with me if I decide not to do a gender reveal party. I really don't know what to do anymore, any suggestions?