Friends

So basically I'm started to realise that your "non pregnant" friends start to use you as an example for not wanting to have kids or wait to start a family saying things like "it'll ruin their life" or "your brave for doing this" etc but is it just me that this happens to?! I feel like it's rude in a way to say that to a 6 month pregnant lady who's already scared shitless about this new chapter in her life (New baby/moving into a new place with my boyfriend/sharing a new life). My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts we started dating when I was 15 and he was 17 and I'll be 25 when our baby is born and my bf will be 26 we have a great relationship with the occasional argument or two but which relationship doesn't have those.

I guess what I'm trying to say is maybe having a pregnant friend to relate to wouldn't make me feel so out of place nowadays, and not feel like I can't be happy or vent about what's going to be my new life in a short few months. Can anyone relate?