Just really need some advice...
I've been in my current relationship for 2 years now, and ill tell you it hasnt been the easiest ride. But most days i fell like it's well worth it! To give a little background, this is his first, long term relationship. Me on the other hand, was previously in a 6 year relationship.
Thing have been rough these past couple of months. Back in November i moved to his home town to be closer to his family,(been leaving with his parents this whole time)and honestly it has been a lot harder than i thought it be. I have no friends or family here and feel lonley sometimes. That has caused us to arugue more than we ever have. To cut to the chase now, this past Sunday i found a message on facebook from his best friends sister. They had seen each other that morning while i was at work. The message i read was about her apologizing for having bad breath, and about how she wished the kiss was longer. I flipped out! I asked him what happened, while i see him shaking holding his phone. He says she had kissed him on the cheeck and that was all. I really don't know if i believe him, cuz as im going through his email at that point i saw they were talking that morning, even though those messages werent on facebook anymore. So obviously he had deleted them. He denied it, and when i showed him he said he forgot. I talked to that girl n told her this was very disrespectful and that i dont want to have to deal with this so she needed to keep her distance, or we would have problems. Ive gotten close with her brother and i know she has a husband and a baby and im not one to break up a family and cause drama.(But believe me, i have no issue with it if she continues taking to him). We settled it and he promised there was nothing else i needed to know. I told him i was gone if i find out he is lying again. So its been hard these past few days cuz i cant shake that feeling. This morning we had another arguement about the car breaking down, so i left in my car to cool down. When i got back home he sat next to me n told me he loved me. I told him i wanted to talk about it, cuz thats how i feel we can solve it, while he would just like to drop it. He went back to what he was doing and idk i just feel so alone right now. Idk if im making the right decision. I cant imagine my life without him and he says the same thing, but i dont want it to be six years down the line and realize this isnt gonna work out. I just needed to get this off my chest and really just need someone to talk to about this. Any words or advise would be appreciated!
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.