After sex hygiene

Hi everyone! My husband & I have sex quite often and it's always amazing! ;-) I'm very clean and I don't like feeling wet, sweaty, or nasty (after sex because I obviously don't mind during sex lol) so after sex I always want to go take a shower or go clean myself up. I've had friends tell me I'm not allowing enough time after sex for sperm to do its thing and I'm wiping it away and what not.