Not having enough sex!

Jennifer
So my husband & I are newlyweds. Just got married 2 1/2 months ago. He was a virgin & I had abstained from sex for 3 years until we got married. Before the wedding he would always talk dirty to me & tell me how crazy he was gonna go in bed when we got married but the thing is none of that happened! He's soo boring in bed & we only have sex at the most 3 times a week! & that's if I keep bugging him for it! At first he said that it was because he's so new to this that he gets nervous when we're having sex & now he says its because he's so exhausted when he gets off work that all he wants to do is go to bed & sleep! Oh & may I remind you he loves oral! He'll pick oral sex over regular sex any day! He's never too tired for that! It also took him forever to touch my vagina when we would foreplay & now that he does he can't even play with it right. Idk if i'm the one doing something wrong here but he's driving me crazy!