Kings and queens.

Why do guys insist on being treated as a king, and they treat their woman like a servant rather than a queen?! I'm just mad. 
We go on a trip I'm the one who packs everything. God forbid I forget his blankie. He needs a hair cut (even though I'm tired and hate doin hair anymore) I still cut it. He's hungry in the middle of the night for a snack. I'll make him something. 
Don't get me wrong, I love him. But a simple thank you for all my hard work would be nice. 
I just need to adjust my attitude. The man works hard for us, but still. I'm just feeling under appreciated.