My amazing husband had 2 children with 2 different women before we met. 1 mother is a saint and the other tries her best to make life impossible. I'd like to get some feedback from other women in my situation or on the other side of my situation. I have tried for years to understand this woman and her tactics and I have nothing. At first her anger and bitterness was aimed at my husband but now she is intentionally dressing my eldest in clothes that are a size too small and refusing to send him to our house in appropriate shoes. I've prayed for her and I am literally at my whits end. I'm into my 2nd trimester and I'm trying to remain calm and stress free but it's been hard these last few days to keep my cool.

Please no negative or ignorant comments.